While that's not an incorrect assumption, and I'm sure since I've mentioned starting a new topic for my new tank whenever that is, what happened was:
My guess is Joel got fed up and had it closed. I know I would have!!!!
I've sent a pm to OC and CM but it's fine either way, if it stays closed I'll just start a new thread and do better about keeping it on topic and more peaceful.
A post in the thread got reported. I figured since the thread title was 100% pure suck or whatever, no one would mind if I just closed it so I didn't have to deal with the aggravation.