QUOTE (chone86 @ Jan 24 2010, 05:51 PM)

*****I bought my tank, and the person i bought it from said to start with the rocks and sand. They also said that i would be able to start with a couple fish; 2 green damsels and a fire fish.
I have had my tank for 3 weeks now and since then have added a tomato clown fish, sea urchin, and green polyp coral. up to this point my tank is doing good, but now that i have become a member on here everyone is saying not to add anything for a few weeks or so. I have been to other tropical fish stores and they too have said that it is alright to have put in what i put in my tank up to this point.now, i guess my question at this time is, what should i be doing now?
ultimately, i want to get another fish or so, more coral, and a couple more crabs. I have a 12g nano cube i know this is going to take time t build, and i understand i might be jumping in to this a little to fast. its very exciting, but i would like someone to give me some advice so that i do not ruin my tank and everything in it. thanks!
---Chone86

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Unfortunately, this thread is tailored to people giving general advice to all beginners, not really an individualized Q&A thread. Your best bet is to start a new thread ("new topic") in this forum to get more people to read your questions I will try to address some issues so other new members don't assume the advice you received was completely correct.
You should be more skeptical of the advice given by LFSs (local fish stores). Also, make sure you have done you're own research before buying any livestock. Many LFSs are misinformed (especially on nano tanks) or just opportunistic. It's like going to a car dealership before learning to drive and expecting the dealer to give you the best advice on choosing a new car. This is why forums like nano-reef.com are so important in getting less biased advice.
How much and where did you get the rock from, and was it cycled? Generally you need 1-1.5 lbs of rock per gallon.
The main problem is that you have too many fish for a 12 gallon nanocube. Your tank 12 gallons of water in the display after you subtract the volumes of the back chambers and rock/sand. 2 (3 max) small fish would be the maximum for a tank of that size, with "small" meaning anything smaller than an ocellaris/percula clown. If you want more fish, you should get a larger tank.
You need to find what's going on in your tank, which is to test the water for things like ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, pH, and specific gravity (or salinity). The API saltwater master kit is a good choice for beginners. It's likely your cycle has finished after three weeks, but you should test the water to make sure. To learn about water parameters and what are the normal ranges you should strive for, read this:
http://reefkeeping.com/issues/2004-05/rhf/index.htmThe second problem is starting with 2 damsels and a fire fish. You should try to add no more than one fish (unless there is a mated pair that should be added simultaneously) because fish have large influences on the tank bioload, and often a mini-cycle will occur with each addition. Too many fish added at once can create a noticeable cycle, which causes multiple issues if you have delicate livestock. This is even worse in a tank as large ("small") as yours. Corals and other invertebrates are often insignificant in terms of bioload.
Here are my observations on your livestock list:
Damsels, which include clownfish, are notably aggressive fish (they are related to FW cichlids). If your "green" damsels are in the genus Chromis, they should be peaceful; although, there can be issues between individuals of the same species. Chromis also appreciate a lot of swimming room.
The firefish is a good choice for a nano tank, but it needs peaceful tankmates.
A tomato clown is way too big for a 12 gallon tank because of size and aggression issues as a more typical damsel than chromis. When deciding what fish to buy, always go by their adult size. Ocellaris/percula clowns are ideal because they're peaceful and small.
An urchin is another complicated issue as many species can be bulldozers in a tank, but a more specific description than "sea urchin" is necessary to determine behavior. Likewise, the "green polyp coral" could mean many things, but it sounds like it's some type of soft coral.
I suggest removing the tomato clown, urchin, and possibly both chromis. Getting rid of the chromis would allow you to keep an ocellaris/percula clown with the firefish. You also haven't mentioned any type of clean up crew (snails and other things that help scavenge or eat algae). Here's a good guide to this:
http://www.chucksaddiction.com/cleanupcrew.html